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<p align="left">In this area, oddly enough, the "vanilla" standard of public dress for women combines so well with the uninhibited sensuality of the swinger lifestyle.</p><p align="left">Yes, I prefer a more casual, modest, everyday PUBLIC look for a woman, rather than a look that focuses so heavily on seduction to the point of straining for it. I think many women in and out of the lifestyle try too hard, or harder than they need to, in the interest of sex appeal. It's more about attitude, and how she carries herself. Don't THINK sexy, BE sexy by not trying.</p><p align="left">The trashy nightgown minis, thong underwear, and stripper heels are overdone, in my opinion. Please lose the shoes when in bed together. And it's the hint of cleavage, the naughty peek inside the blouse carelessly (or deliberately) left unbuttoned that I find most effective. It's the look that teases. Letting it all hang out in a low-cut top is just-- tacky. Leave more to the imagination. The mind is the most important organ to be engaged in sexuality. Don't forget to stimulate it. I am much more aroused by a woman in a modest bra, a simple t-shirt, and regular panties. It's about the innocence mingling with the naughty, the ordinary crossing over with the kinky.<br>"It's such a pleasure to meet you, Mr. and Mrs. Modest-Pair." Flash forward, and I'm fucking the happily-married Mrs. in their bedroom. It's about the contrast!<br></p><p align="left">Fully dressed, I really like a fit woman in a sundress by day, mid-length, or a tastefully elegant evening gown by night. Tight jeans, long or short, are a proven standard. No objections there. On the kinkier side, I like a woman in a smart business suit with a miniskirt, or a skirt with a slit, and no underwear beneath her pantyhose or stockings and garter belt. And the classic Catholic schoolgirl outfit is a classic because it never grows old.<br><br>Yeah, yeah, I know. "Demanding single guy. Howz that all workin' out for ya, pal?"<br>I can't rightly complain. I've actually found some who agree with my tastes. I know I risk being ostracized and ignored by the rest. I'm okay with that. I choose to be honest.<br></p>
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